A Gift of Wealth Beyond Money: The Power of an Ethical Will
When we think about “estate planning,” our minds usually jump to bank accounts, property deeds, and life insurance policies. We spend years ensuring our financial assets are protected and distributed fairly.
But there is another kind of wealth—one that can’t be measured in dollars but is infinitely more precious to those we leave behind.
What is an Ethical Will?
Unlike a Last Will and Testament, which is a legal document focused on who gets what, an Ethical Will is a personal document focused on who you are.
It is a heartfelt letter, a video, or even a voice recording addressed to your family and future generations. It’s a way to pass on your “spiritual assets”: your values, life lessons, hopes, and the wisdom you’ve gained through years of trial and error.
Why is it so Important to Leave This Legacy?
When a loved one passes without sharing their story, a library of personal history is lost forever.
An Ethical Will bridges that gap. It is important because:
- It provides a moral compass: Sharing how you navigated challenges based on your core beliefs gives your children and grandchildren a roadmap for their own lives.
- It preserves your voice: Long after you’re gone, your family can “hear” your perspective on what truly matters.
- It offers closure and connection: Writing one allows you to express love, forgiveness, and gratitude in a way that daily life doesn’t always permit.
Filling in the “Missing Pieces”
People often have a deep hunger for the details that official documents leave out. Your Ethical Will is the perfect place to record the things that matter most:
- The Family Tree: Beyond names and dates, what were these people like? What were the family secrets, the triumphs, and the quirks?
- The “How” of Life: How did you solve that major crisis in the 1980s? What core belief kept you going when things got tough?
- The Simple Joys: Sometimes, the most cherished legacy is practical. Your favorite recipe—the one that made the whole house smell like Sunday dinner—is a piece of your soul you can leave on their table.
How to Get Started
You don’t need to be a professional writer to create an Ethical Will. It doesn’t need to be long, and it certainly doesn’t need to be perfect. Start by asking yourself a few questions:
- What are the three most important lessons I’ve learned in life?
- What is one thing I want my grandchildren to never forget?
- What are the values I hope my family continues to uphold?
The Goal is to leave your family a treasure chest of wisdom that no inheritance tax can touch and no market crash can devalue.
by Debbie Crouse, CSA
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